Forgiveness is the moment in which you are not letting the poison increase

What is forgiveness? Forgiveness is the moment in which you are not letting the poison of hatred, revenge, jealousy, anger, and so on increase. If you do not forgive, you will carry it with you for days, weeks, months, and years. Eventually that poison will penetrate into all your feelings, actions, and thinking. You will do things that will even surprise you. Observe your actions and you will see it. If you are angry with someone and you did not clean it, forty years later, for example, it comes out.

-Torkom Saraydarian

Happiness, Joy & Bliss

Every state of consciousness has its corresponding physical manifestation

For most of us sadness is a word, but esoterically sadness is poison. For example, the quantum theory states that energy becomes matter and matter becomes energy. EVERY STATE OF CONSCIOUSNESS HAS ITS CORRESPONDING PHYSICAL MANIFESTATION. If we are talking about hatred, there is a physical manifestation of it. Some kind of elements are forming in your blood. When hatred is manifested in your blood, it is very difficult to dissipate it. If you neglect it, it will turn into many different forms and eventually will make you act crazy.

-Torkom Saraydarian
Happiness, Joy & Bliss

What we do is instantaneously released into space

If we can realize that what we do, what we speak and feel, what we think and plan are instantaneously released into space, and all people everywhere are affected by them and in their higher consciousness are aware of them, then we would be careful of our actions, feelings, and thoughts.

The awareness of people about our actions, feelings, and thoughts is a matter of time. Condemnation comes when information is registered. It may happen during many incarnations or in this incarnation, but the judgment of the consciousness of humanity takes place in its due time.

-Torkom Saraydarian

Cosmic Questions vol.2

Devotion helps you dissolve your habits

Read about the lives of Lincoln, Washington, Gandhi, Florence Nightingale, Mother Teresa, Martin Luther King and then look at your life and the lives of your friends. Between these polarities, your discrimination will grow and help you exercise devotion. Your discrimination is born the moment when you compare the ideal life of a Great One with the life you are living.

Try to devote yourself to a greater beauty so that you see clearly where your life is. On the path of devotion to something great, you slowly overcome your habits, glamors, illusions and ego. A moment comes that you do not have any ego left. But you do not lose your individuality. Devotion releases your true essence which was enslaved in your ego.

Habits go through four stages:

1. Your habits control you.
2. You enjoy your habits and have fun with them.
3. You realize that your habits are limiting you.
4. You abhor your habits.

Devotion helps you reach this last stage and dissolve your habits.


-Torkom Saraydarian
Virtues & Values vol.1

Effective devotion

Special training is needed to make your devotion an increasing field of service. Some devotees are satisfied in praying and worshipping all day; but in order to make the object of your devotion a means of transformation, you must develop many skills, arts, and even specializations. You must create right channels to bring the beauty, the fire, and the healing properties of the object of your devotion into the world.

Action, labor and dedicated service need various skills, arts, and crafts to bring the object of your devotion into manifestation and make it a regenerative force in the world. Once a devotee told me that he wished he was an attorney to protect a cause that was so important for the public health. Many people wish, but few people try to become qualified to fulfill their wishes. The greater the education and training you have, the greater the devotion you can exercise to reach your goal.


-Torkom Saraydarian
Virtues & Values vol.1

The modern definition of God

The modern definition of God can be understood as One Who talks through our conscience, through our love, through our creativity, through compassion and goodness.

For some advancing human beings, the God idea is an idea of power, compassion and Light. God is

--  you
-- Father-Mother
-- The power of the planet
-- The power of the Sun
-- The power of Cosmos
-- The power of the Milky Way
-- The power of that around which our Milky Way revolves

The idea of God is relative to your expanding consciousness. The more you expand your consciousness, the more inclusive is your God. There is One God, but Centers in the One God gradually can be approached.


-Torkom Saraydarian
Leadership vol.2

See the other side of something you want to hug

One day my Father took me to a forest where there were oak and pine trees. I had the habit of going and hugging huge trees to feel their strength and energy. In the forest near a little lake, I saw a big oak tree. I hurried to hug it, but my Father warned, “No, don’t do that.”

“Why not? I don’t understand.”

“Well, hold my hand, and let us walk to the tree.” We approached the tree and he said, “You see, this side of the tree is good, but let us look at the other side.”

We walked carefully to the other side of the huge oak tree and stood ten feet away from it. “What do you see there?”

“A big hole in the tree.”

“What else?”

“Daddy, what is that in the hole?”

“It’s a nest of rattlesnakes.”

I was terrified. My imagination ran wild... I was already hugging the tree and the snakes were running after me... I was squeezing the fingers of my Father’s hand and my body was sweaty. “This is a lesson for you,” he said, “to see the other side of something you want to hug...”

-Torkom Saraydarian

Education as Transformation vol.2

Toys and children

Our American children are loaded with toys and they are so very toy conscious and greedy for toys. They need to have new toys continuously in order to be satisfied and happy.

After holidays you see children visiting and playing with with each other and showing their toys with great pride – their machine-guns, rifles, hand guns, bombs, various war weapons, disfigured animals, dolls, and so on. And if new toys are not bought for them, they became resentful and unhappy for a long time.

In the communities I visited in Asia, they did not believe in such toys. There was no such shop that used to make or sell children’s toys.

I did not have a chance to make an inquiry about this, but throughout the years I observed children who had various roomfuls of toys and children without toys.

The children without toys made by others were more creative, artistic, sensitive, and had a spirit of gratitude – much more so than those who had plenty of toys.

The children without such toys were very social. They used to play with each other and create their own games to play with sisters and brothers, mothers and fathers, and take part in all the labors at home. Children were also busy with their parents caring for the animals – the horses, donkeys, chickens, goats, cows, calves – or helped them in gardening, repairing, painting, building, working at home, or working with their fathers on vacation days from school.

Children without artificial toys had their toys too, but they made them.

Those who have toys made for them in some sense block their creativity, the spirit of adaptation and group work, and enter into a world of satisfaction, attachment, dependency, loneliness, and fantasy. Lazy boys, and those who used to wander on the streets, were looked at as failures and watched carefully by the authorities.


-Torkom Saraydarian
Autobiography

The most dangerous path is seeking pleasure in the spiritual bazaars

People think that spirituality is to run after every so-called teachers or so-called esoteric books and so-called channels and mediums. But real spirituality is not built by accumulating knowledge, opinions, information, but by a transformation of life. And a transformation of life cannot take place until one starts losing his self-interest and begins to serve a great human cause.

At the present we have millions of wanderers who go from one teacher to another, from one book to another, trying to find nourishment for their self-interest. The most dangerous path is seeking pleasure in the spiritual bazaars.

There are lots of so-called “esoteric” or “occult” literature on the market that try by all means to prevent people from devoting themselves to a worthy cause. Every book, teacher, and school for them is like a fashion model, continually presenting to the audience a “new” fashion. The audience enjoys the fashions and the girls, but these fashions do not create in them commitment, dedication to an ideal, and the searchers resemble window shoppers because they do not have any real interest in sacrificing for real objects. Eventually, their interest in spiritual work fades or petrifies, and a moment comes when they even hate any spiritual discussion. Their interest totally evaporates. Such people end their life in despair and depression.

-Torkom Saraydarian

Virtues & Values vol.1

Comedy, humor, jest and jokes

Comedy and humor are different. In comedy you reveal the most stupid or ugly parts of people and impress them on others. In humor you help people understand their own weaknesses or shortcomings and take care of them.

Comedy is ugly criticism. Through comedy you can destroy the best images and lead people to vulgarity.

Under the protection of comedy you say or do things that you would never be able to say or do otherwise.

Humor is based on pure observation and using that observation to help people uplift themselves.

Comedy and jest, when they reach the level of vulgarity, are as dangerous as drugs.

Comedy slanders people, principles, laws, and standards in making you laugh. Laughter makes the slander accepted. Laughter is used as a pass to enter into sacred places.

Comedy is used very efficiently also as a political tool to disgrace people or to exaggerate their weaknesses.

People like to laugh even if they realize that they often laugh at themselves. To see oneself as is, is an advantage. To see an exaggerated image of oneself is depressive or a misleading device.

Comedy prevents your mind from penetration into reality. It prevents you from using your mind freely.

People use comedy also to hide their ugliness, or they use comedy to make people accept their ugliness. The motive behind slander is the same. Slandering others hides one’s own ugliness by drawing attention to others.

There is also a form of joking used to remove the sacredness of certain objects, ideas, and beliefs. It is the most subtle way to make people repulse certain sacred objects, ideas, and beliefs. Through certain jokes many sacred principles are destroyed.


-Torkom Saraydarian
Cosmic Questions vol.3

Coarseness

The closer you approach to your Divine Self, the more concern you demonstrate for others, and you try to relate with them in such a way that you lead others toward their Self instead of stimulating and challenging their animal interests.

Failure of feeling others as part of yourself is the failure of refinement, of being and living as your True Self. If you are unable to feel others as parts of your Self, your thoughts, emotions, words, and actions follow the path of coarseness. You become insensitive to people’s needs, to their dreams and visions, to their rights and values.

Coarseness is the result of lack of control over your animal nature, your ego, vanity, and ignorance. Coarseness is lack of control over obsessing and possessing entities. Coarseness is the result of the activity of dark forces through you.

Coarseness expresses itself in hypocrisy, in language full of blasphemy and curses, hurting jokes, mockery, in unpleasant gestures, voice and manner. But all these are the result of the coarseness of consciousness that is still not emancipated from self-worship, dictatorship, or from the attitude of imposing on others.

-Torkom Saraydarian

Cosmic Questions vol.3

Children and coarseness

Children must be taught from childhood how to be refined and graceful, and in the meantime decisive, firm and enduring. The modern world seems to run on the path of coarseness. The movies are the biggest source of coarseness, and our children day and night are fed by them.

Many children are born with refined hearts, but because of their environment they develop a second nature of coarseness to protect their dignity and rights. Education not only must teach the disciplines of refinement but also try to discover such noble children who are forced to be coarse and bring them back to their original nature.

-Torkom Saraydarian

Cosmic Questions vol.3

Coarseness in art

Coarseness can manifest not only through our thoughts, emotions, and actions but also through so called art, dances, songs, and music.

What is the common coarseness in art? It is any expression that stimulates your lower emotions so that you lose control over them or you experience a depressing conflict within yourself. Your striving, studies, and meditation weaken even in such a degree that eventually you abandon your path.

Coarseness is imposed upon humanity almost against their will, for example, through many publications and radio and television advertisements, movies, and theatrical performances.

The carriers of coarseness are smart enough to start with a very small dosage, and they gradually increase it to avoid confrontation and conflict. They know how to spread coarseness, dressing it in the most beautiful words, clothes, and mannerisms, even in heroism, so that you accept them. They are like medical pills that are obnoxious in taste but coated with sugar and chocolate so that you do not touch the essence as you swallow them.

Coarseness prevents discipline, striving, and efforts to clean and control your body of its urges and drives. Once you are dominated by coarseness, you do not want to go through the discipline to control your manners, your emotions, your words and thoughts. You do not want to go through refining your body, emotions, and thoughts, but you let your thoughts, emotions, and body control you. Usually coarse people are slaves of obsession, subconscious and hypnotic suggestions, or slaves of examples.

Go to a modern dance party and you will not see any design of refined movement. All move the way they want to move, mostly expressing sex energy and emotional complexes.

Go to a ballet and you will see the difference between the two dances. One is the result of striving, understanding, philosophy, plan, and meaning. The other is the result of carelessness behind which there is no aspiration, striving or refinement.

Refined dances are like messages of nobility, philosophy, ideas, and visions. Coarse dances have no message. There is irresponsibility and careless in them, and you do not need training and discipline to dance. Just jump into the crowd and move your body the way you want.

Crime, murder, and violence are spreading everywhere because people are teaching them systematically and by all possible means to lead humanity toward coarseness.

Watch a movie and hear the words that they were not able to use fifty years ago but now are common and accepted. Acceptance of coarseness show how successful are those who are leading this movement toward coarseness.

In old films we used to see striving toward refinement. Love was holy, but now almost in every film you see scenes of sexual intercourse. Very soon the most obnoxious expressions will be accepted as normal expressions of life.

Refinement inspires striving, and striving leads you to your life’s purpose. You grow, bloom, and unfold with your higher potentials. Coarseness leads you toward degeneration and disintegration.


-Torkom Saraydarian
Cosmic Questions vol.3

The limiting conditions of life cannot be annihilated by cursing them

The limiting conditions of life cannot be annihilated by cursing the conditions or burying yourself in sadness and anger but by using the conditions in such a way that you make them the instrument to annihilate them.

One day my Father said that those who do not fight against the conditions in which they live, but gratefully try to improve them and appreciate the opportunity given to them, they live longer and happier lives.

Many people eat away their own life in hating the life they live, without taking positive and intelligent steps to improve or change it. Negative, remorseful, and hateful attitudes toward conditions create poison in our system and prevent us from seeing the ways to change the conditions.


-Torkom Saraydarian
Virtues & Values vol.1

How can we use joy to solve problems in relationships?

Question: How can we use joy to solve problems in relationships?

Answer: Just continue to be joyful and the problems will melt away. Don’t even talk. When you try to clean the mess of others, you can fall into it. The harder you try, the deeper you fall if someone is really depressed, sad, or always negative, do not mind it and you will see that he or she will no longer use these tools because they don’t work. With joy you can make their negative tools worthless. A husband might say, “I am going to divorce you.” And the wife says, “Oh, please don’t. I will be your slave.” The man will continue that behavior until the day she says, “I don’t care.” I am referring to divine carelessness.

A person once said, “From now on, I am not going to come to your classes.” “How nice. You will respect me with your absence,” I said. It is you that increases the devils by hanging onto them. Don’t hang on people’s devils.

Never decide to do anything important unless you are in joy. Your decisions will fail if they come from a negative attitude of mind. Joy is the victory of spirit over matter.


-Torkom Saraydarian
Happiness, Joy & Bliss

How to eradicate the damage done to Nature

Humanity committed an unparalleled crime against Nature by destroying the balance of Nature through its scientific experiments and so-called discoveries. Science will not eliminate all that it did to the planet. Science started to improve our life and to make life pleasant to live on the planet but fell into greed and stupidity by interfering with the natural order in life. The same thing will continue to happen, even if a chance is given to science to eradicate the damage that it caused.

The damage is beyond the power of science to eliminate. There must be something beyond science to eradicate the growing damage already done.

What would that be?

Beyond science is the power of renunciation from all the poisons and luxury that science gave us and a return to Nature, if any Nature is left to return to!

Without such a drastic shift, no power on earth can save us from the destruction that is already on the way.

The first blow to our destructive trends must be given to greed and luxury. People must be re-educated to be satisfied with simple foods, simple clothes, and simple dwelling places. To manage the population growth, for at least fifty years, married couples should not have more than one child. Unmarried people should not have children.

We must refrain from eating meat, fish, or chicken. Auto traffic must be cut by seventy-five percent and air traffic by eighty percent.

If we take these steps we will survive. If not, Nature will try to impose these restrictions on us very suddenly and when it is too late.

Appealing to the fields of science, religion, education, finance, art, politics, or philosophy will not help. All these branches of human endeavor as they are now will slowly show their bankruptcy. The only wisdom that will help global humanity is the actualization of the values of renunciation, love, and sacrificial service.

We must turn to Nature and eliminate all that was artificially manufactured to poison humanity and the planet. This can be done through the path of renunciation. This is the only way to salvation.


-Torkom Saraydarian
Cosmic Questions vol.3, p.12

The endless song

One day Satan and man became friends. They worked all day to cultivate a field, and at dusk they were ready to make the five mile walk home. Satan said to the man, “I see that you are tired. You can sit on my back and sing a song, and as you sing I will carry you home. But when your song is over you must climb down, and I will jump on your back and sing my song. Then when I am through, you will take your turn, and so on.” The man agreed, jumped on Satan’s back and began to sing. But after half a mile his song was over, and so he had to let Satan ride. Satan jumped on his back and began to sing. The man walked one mile, two miles, three miles, and Satan was still singing. “I am tired,” said the man. “Please finish your song.” “What are you talking about?” Satan asked. “We have an agreement. I will not climb down until my song is finished. You have no right to interrupt me.” The man carried him for another mile and then fell to his death.

This is the story of materialism. The materialists have a song that will never finish until its carrier is killed. The problem is how to control the earthbound intellect.


-Torkom Saraydarian
Battling Dark Forces

Joy always increases when your ego and self-interest decrease

Joy always increases when your ego and self-interest decrease. Some people will ask, “What kind of philosophy is that? Are you saying that I will decrease and joy will increase?” Actually, in your essence you are joy. You as the joy increase. It is the most limiting elements in you that decrease.

Why have a joyful heart? A joyful heart emanates an energy called psychic energy. Psychic energy is the energy of your soul, your spirit. When you are joyful, it radiates outward. When you are not joyful, psychic energy dies. Psychic energy is the healer of your body, emotions, and mind. Psychic energy increases your energy potentials and your immune system. The immune system fails when humanity is not joyful.

Joy cleanses you. It takes the dust and rust from your heart, which cause sickness in your psyche. When you are joyful, you love people. When you don't have joy, you criticize and belittle others.

The psychic energy of joy also cleans our dark, harmful thoughts. Millions of such thoughts develop in our minds daily. We say, "My thoughts are not hurting people because I am not verbalizing them, and I am not acting or feeling under their power." But such thoughts are termites. Eventually you will see that the "the two by fours" of your brain are eaten.


-Torkom Saraydarian
Happiness, Joy & Bliss

A joyful child is the flower and fruit of certain conditions

A joyful child is the flower and fruit of certain conditions:

1. He or she did not inherit any diseases from his parents.
2. His father and mother did not pollute his nature with irritation, fights, divorce, and negative emotions.
3. He was nourished properly.
4. He had a joyful environment.
5. Proper clothing was provided.
6. There was love at home, understanding, and harmony.
7. He was not a victim of various attacks, genocides, wars, famine, earthquakes, or other natural calamities.
8. He was not raised in fanaticism and with ideas of separatism and hatred.
9. He was not exposed to examples of violence and murder.
10. He was not doped and drugged and raped.
11. No mental pressures were put on his brain beyond his capacity to carry them, nor was he subjected to hypnotism.
12. He was not forced to give fruits before he sprouted.
13. He was not exposed to contemporary movies of violence, murder, and sex.
14. His parents, teachers, heroes, and friends were not humiliated in front of him.

To have a joyful child is to have the best future for humanity.


-Torkom Saraydarian
Happiness, Joy & Bliss

Advice regarding psychism

Great Teachers give the following advice regarding psychism:

1. Do not force yourself to be a psychic but let your powers flourish naturally.
2. Never manipulate your centers and never concentrate upon them.
3. Find a wise Teacher when you feel that you are ready for instruction.
4. Never use your powers to satisfy the curious or selfish interests of others. Study the Upanishads, The Bhagavad Gita, The New Testament, the works of H. P. Blavatsky, Alice A. Bailey, Helena Roerich, and other such literature.
5. Learn how to meditate.
6. Observe your moral life, and do not be trapped in sex, vanity, greed, hatred, and fear. Such elements destroy the communication line between you and your Solar Angel.
7. Try to live in the light of your Solar Angel.
8. Do not talk about your own spiritual striving and discoveries with average people.
9. Any psychic experience must be reported to your Teacher and no one else.
10. Any psychic order revealed from the subjective realms must not be obeyed until your Teacher’s advice is sought.


-Torkom Saraydarian
Breakthrough to Higher Psychism, pp.92-92